Cory Rosenke

In the landscape of human relationships—whether marital, familial, romantic, or professional—one of the most insidious and rarely confronted patterns is the victim mentality. Though frequently dismissed as mere complaining or sensitivity, it functions as a pervasive psychological defense that erodes trust, intimacy, and mutual growth. At its core, victim mentality is a chronic orientation in which individuals interpret most life events as happening to them rather than through them,...

Jealousy among spouses, friends, or family members—such as one resenting another’s career success or their close bond with others—is a widespread yet toxic issue that signals serious trouble in relationships. As a relationship coach, I’ve seen its destructive power firsthand. I was once in a relationship fraught with jealousy, and it tore us apart. Research indicates that over 60% of people in close relationships experience jealousy tied to another’s achievements or connections, often rooted...

Conflict in relationships—whether a heated argument with your spouse or a clash with your teenager—feels like a wildfire. It’s raw,...